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Thursday, 7 February 2008
Marriage
 It was rather random but me and my friend, R, suddenly started the topic of marriage. R believe that a marriage is something joyful and he can't wait to start a family of R's own. I pondered. I can't rmb when, but i once looked forward to marriage. To b able to stay wif some1 u loved (to eternity??), and watch your children grow. But as time goes by, i no longer have the urge towards marriage. Perhaps i watched too many cases of failed marriages around me, or maybe, i just lose faith in guys to stay 100% commited to their girlfriend or wife... R asked me: "Y r u so pessimistic abt marriage? U seems like tat kind of ppl who think of breaking up even b4 u stead wif tat guy." Actually im not pessimistic abt it. I jux feel like at times u hab to b realistic abt a relationship, or else u'll jux b seriously hurt in the end, and it'll nv heal. I dun expect much. I jux hope that my partner will cherish the relationship more than i do, or else, the relationsip will jux be pure RESPONSIBILITY (ya.. tis word.. Again..). Not trying to be selfish, but this is the ONLY point i expect. Who dun wish to b loved? I admire R's view towards marriage. Hopefully i'll meet some1 who will change my view. PS: Happy CNY to every1! =D |
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