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Monday, 26 September 2011
Friends
Friends are definitely a major part in my life. I used to believe that i should have as many friends as possible so i can look for someone to accompany whenever im alone. So i tried to widen my social circles by joining all sorts of activities, cca, events.. etc.But i realised i was utterly wrong. Knowing more people doesnt mean that u can get a true friend. I realised even with so many of my so called 'friends', i can hardly really confide to anyone whenever im troubled. There's only a handful that i'll share my emotions. There's only this handful that will truly care for me, give me advice to my problems and not probing me about my personal life like some paparazzi, and try to broadcast it to everybody. And its because of only this minute number of true friends that i have, i cherish them like some precious gems. Honestly speaking, recalling the dark days when im ostracised back then in sec school, im so afraid that one day i'll be a loner again. I dont have the luxury of being surrounded by friends, and that's why im so sensitive to how my friends feel for my actions. 因为曾经失去所以如今更加珍惜。I dont know friends mean to others, but i know for me, w/o friends, i wont be able to live till now. Its fun to crack some jokes with friends, but i believe we should always keep in mind of the limit to our jokes. Cross that line and that's it. The mess is hard to clear after that. I dont know whether what i said make any sense to the intended audience, but i hope people can look at themselves and re-evaluate himself/herself towards the way they treat friends. I dont mean im a professional by saying that. Im doing self-reflection on myself too. 不要把朋友的关心当成理所当然。关心一旦被过度滥用，最后了解，信任。。。什么都可能失去。 |
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